The breaker of all hearts, the doomed F-word and the ultimate verbatim of how the rest of your romantic life will pan out. Or is it really?
I’ve been doing a of thinking about the friendzone and I have a theory that it might not be as bad as people make it out to be
First of all, let’s define the F-word
According to Urban Dictionary the Friendzone is defined as the following:
This is the worst position someone can be in, if they have feelings for someone. When a person develops romantic feelings for someone, but the other person only sees the relationship as just being friends
I think this is in fact not the worst position a person can be in. Quick disclaimer but I have been in the friendzone in the past so I’m not coming from a completely ambiguous position.
I have a feeling that if someone does not reciprocate your feelings maybe it’s because they’re not supposed to?
From a completely optimistic point of view, maybe the universe knows more than it lets on and in factt knows that this person is not right for you as more than a friend.
While it might seem like the world is ending and that you’ll never be able to continue be friends, trust me, you will.
Because your amazing, perfect, beautiful self would have moved on and hey, guess what you’re left with? a great friend!
Imagine if you never took the time to be friends with them in the first place and asked them out instantly? you wouldn’t even have had a chance to add a friend onto your list. It’s either all or nothing
But with the friendzone, at least you get a friend out of it and who knows what time will bring about?
This is a fun little post I’ve been meaning to write for a while. Hope you enjoyed!